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"A family based in north London seeks an extraordinary and skilled instructor to guide their youngest child on his first steps to growing into an English gentleman."

Looking at this post, you might readily overlook the phrase "initial stages" as simple a turn of phrase.

However, it may be the most significant aspect of this unusual employment listing, as it aims to hire a tutor for a one-year-old.

Numerous of submissions have now been received since the unnamed family published their call for the £180,000 per year tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

In recent few weeks, the listing has received interest across the news, with numerous asking why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, head and founder of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their hunt, stated that despite early doubt, he found the concept "visionary", and "progressive".

When he spoke with the family, he mentioned they recognized the atypical character of their requirement, and how young their son is.

However, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had postponed until their elder sibling was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had by then taken hold".

What exactly did the family mean by "cultural bias"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert answered. "The way you eat, how you speak".

He said the firstborn had absorbed "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had taken on their cultural ways. The family told him they hoped to prevent the same situation to happen again with their infant.

The intention: To engage a UK tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to influence the baby from the very start.

Subtle Influence

"A great deal of the education at the beginning here is somewhat absorbed naturally," stated Adam.

It's via this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will acquire the English characteristics they want to instil.

The consultant said the tutor must be somebody who attended "the right kinds of schools – the same kinds of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they may not realize they're doing, effortlessly," he said.

Expense Not a Factor

The family informed the expert the chosen tutor should ideally also have familiarity of or enthusiasm in horse riding, winter sports, creative fields and instrumental training so as to inspire the child in a broad spectrum of hobbies.

More than that though, he said the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a range of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, assisting their son become a "UK sophisticate" will bring about achievement and provide access.

"Considering the pros and cons of that, because it's definitely a social class indicator," he adds.

But, despite all this guidance in "UK identity", would the child adopt what is termed cultural bias from the multicultural family he is raised by anyway?

"Absolutely", said the CEO. "The parents understand this could fail, but they've merely embraced the attitude of, 'why not attempt it and let's go as early as we can', because the expense of it is not relevant," he explained.

Overly Optimistic

Several in the tutoring industry who share these doubts.

Another CEO, chief executive of a tutoring service, who provides individual instructors, wrote that "the process of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not manufactured."

He wrote that he had emigrated from China to the UK at the age of seven, and had been raised knowing and embodying two backgrounds. He progressed to be educated at Cambridge University.

"The concept that an individual can act as a embodiment of Britishness, an individual who can possibly transplant the qualities of a British gentleman upon a infant child, strikes me as idealistic and unrealistic," he wrote.

"In my experience, engaging a distinctly UK tutor from infancy will will not necessarily achieve the result they want.

"I did not have such a tutor, and however I have been fortunate enough to enjoy many of the situations they aspire for their son."

He stated: "The truth is, personal identity can not be dictated from the outside influences; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, English culture is something Adam thinks can be educated – and commercialized.

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